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Friday, September 19, 2008

today's topic for discussion:
boys who hate girls who are after their money
and YET think its absolutely okay to
go after a rich girl so that they
can spend her money

OKAY
if you are a guy
and you think
LIKE THAT
you're probably going to hate me
after what i have to say
but WHO CARES
haha

call me your stereotypical girl or
whatever else
but honestly
i do believe it is the guys job to take care of the girl
NO
i have never ever dated a guy just for his money
i dont like it when he spends excessive amounts of money on me
BUT i do expect him to take me out and treat me
once in a while
ESP on special occasions
and i KNOW for a fact
that most guys dont have a problem with it
i think if a guy really loves a girl
he would WANT to take care of her
IF the guy is good to her
the girl wont expect anything more than whats she's getting
cause she'll be satisfied with what she has
cause after all.the MONEY is not the main focus here
(WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THE AVERAGE GIRL HERE
not the GOLD DIGGERS)
i just dont understand guys like that
when you're in a relationship
with someone you really care about
you dont pinch pennies
ESP WHEN YOUR FREAKING RICH
i think it IS the guy's responsibility to
take care of the girl
the girl returns the favour in others ways
you know like
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
and stuff like that
you just
YOU CANT QUANTIFY LOVE
you cant split it 50-50
there's no WAY you can do it
you destroy the essence of love
its all about sharing
and besides
the way a guy treats his girlfriend
i think it is a very accurate reflection
of his character
i've seen so many women
hook up with guys like that
or worse
MARRY THEM
they spend the rest of their lives breaking their backs
trying to support the rest of the family
cause the stupid man STILL has not learnt that
it is HIS RESPONSIBILTY to take care of the
people he loves
call me whatever you want
but i KNOW the importance of having a guy
that WILL take care of you
and trust me
it is HELL IMPORTANT
and honestly.
the fact that guys like this exist?
i blame it on the silly girls that date them
and waste their money on them
and LET them eat all their money up
THEY are the ones that are spoiling the boys
oh YES and one more thing i have to say
if a guys uses his money to entice a girl
and to get her to go out with him
does it not mean that he loses the RIGHT
to complain when he has to spend money on her
WHEN they get together
urghh
some boys piss me off sometimes

rarr
this is just a very touchy subject for me
I HAVE MY REASONS
haha
OKAY feel free to counter argue
but you wont change my views
HAHA (:

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